Thornham St. James’ C.E. (controlled) Primary School
Anti- Bullying Policy
Reviewed and updated September 2021
Bullying affects everyone, not just the bullies and the victims; it also affects those other children who watch. No one person or group, whether staff or pupil, should accept bullying behaviour. Only when all issues of bullying are addressed, will a child best be able to benefit from the opportunities available at school.
Rationale
Thornham St. James School believes that its pupils have the right to learn in a supportive, caring and safe environment without the fear of being bullied. Our school has a strong, clear behaviour policy where it is made clear that bullying is a form of unacceptable behaviour which will not be tolerated. Any bullying complaints will be dealt with firmly, fairly and promptly.
What is Bullying?
There are many definitions of bullying, but most have three things in common:
Bullying can take many forms, but the main types are:
a) PHYSICAL - hitting, kicking, spitting, taking belongings.
b) VERBAL - verbal abuse can take the form of name calling. It may be directed towards gender, ethnic origin, physical/social disability, or personality, etc
c) INDIRECT - spreading nasty stories about someone, excluding someone from social groups, having possessions taken, hidden or destroyed.
A useful quotation to be read to the pupils is:
“A pupil is being bullied, or picked on, when another pupil or groups of pupils say nasty things to him or her. It is also bullying when a pupil is hit, kicked, threatened, sent nasty notes, has unkind rumours spread about them, is called names, is not allowed to join in and things like that. These things can happen frequently and it is difficult for the pupil to defend him/herself. It is also bullying when a pupil is teased repeatedly in a nasty way.” (Bullying – Don’t Suffer in Silence, DFE funded Sheffield University Project).
Preventative Measures in School
As a school we will:
Action to be taken when bullying is suspected:
If bullying is suspected, the suspected victim, the suspected bully, and any witnesses will be interviewed. Whatever the outcome of the investigation all parties will be left in no doubt as to the effects of bullying and the school’s policy.
If any degree of bullying is identified, the following action will be taken:
Help, Support and Counselling will be given as appropriate to both the victims and the bullies.
We support the victims in the following ways:
· By offering them an immediate opportunity to talk about the experience with their class teacher, or another teacher if they choose.
· Informing the victims’ parents/guardians.
· By offering continued support when they feel they need it.
· By taking one or more of the disciplinary steps described below to prevent more bullying.
We also discipline, yet try to help the bullies in the following ways:
Disciplinary Steps
1. The bully/bullies will be warned officially to stop offending.
2. Informing the bullies’ parents/guardians.
3. The bully/bullies may be excluded from the school premises at lunchtimes.
4. If bullying does not stop they will be suspended for a minor fixed period (one or two days).
5. If the bullying still continues they will be recommended for suspension for a major fixed period (up to five days) or an indefinite period.
6. If the bully/bullies will not end such behaviour, they will be recommended for permanent exclusion (expulsion)
Conclusion
The object of this policy is to create a safe, happy, caring and considerate community in which children learn to value others (see Behaviour Policy). The school will regularly review its practices to ensure the effectiveness of this policy.
Appendices
APPENDIX 1
Through the curriculum schools could explore issues such as
APPENDIX 2
Information for pupils
When you are being bullied
DON’T SUFFER IN SILENCE! FEAR IS A BULLY’S GREATEST WEAPON AND YOU MUST NOT BE AFRAID OF TELLING.
Teachers will take you seriously and will deal with bullies in a way which will end the bullying and not make things worse for you.
After you have been bullied
When you are talking about bullying with an adult, be clear about
If you know someone is being bullied:
REMEMBER: Don’t suffer in silence! If we don’t know then we can’t do anything about it.
APPENDIX 3
Information for parents and families
All schools are likely to have some problem with bullying at one time or another. It is important that your child’s school takes steps to reduce and prevent bullying, as many schools have already successfully done.
Bullying behaviour includes:
Parents and families have an important part to play in helping schools deal with bullying.
As a parent:
If your child has been bullied:
Talking with teachers about bullying:
If you are not satisfied:
Families who feel that their concerns are not being addressed appropriately by the school might like to consider the following steps:
If your child is bullying other children
Many children may be involved in bullying other pupils at some time or other. Often parents are not aware that their child is involved in bullying.
Children sometimes bully others because:
To stop your child from bullying others
Thornham St. James’ C.E. (controlled) Primary School
Anti- Bullying Policy
Reviewed and updated September 2021
Bullying affects everyone, not just the bullies and the victims; it also affects those other children who watch. No one person or group, whether staff or pupil, should accept bullying behaviour. Only when all issues of bullying are addressed, will a child best be able to benefit from the opportunities available at school.
Rationale
Thornham St. James School believes that its pupils have the right to learn in a supportive, caring and safe environment without the fear of being bullied. Our school has a strong, clear behaviour policy where it is made clear that bullying is a form of unacceptable behaviour which will not be tolerated. Any bullying complaints will be dealt with firmly, fairly and promptly.
What is Bullying?
There are many definitions of bullying, but most have three things in common:
Bullying can take many forms, but the main types are:
a) PHYSICAL - hitting, kicking, spitting, taking belongings.
b) VERBAL - verbal abuse can take the form of name calling. It may be directed towards gender, ethnic origin, physical/social disability, or personality, etc
c) INDIRECT - spreading nasty stories about someone, excluding someone from social groups, having possessions taken, hidden or destroyed.
A useful quotation to be read to the pupils is:
“A pupil is being bullied, or picked on, when another pupil or groups of pupils say nasty things to him or her. It is also bullying when a pupil is hit, kicked, threatened, sent nasty notes, has unkind rumours spread about them, is called names, is not allowed to join in and things like that. These things can happen frequently and it is difficult for the pupil to defend him/herself. It is also bullying when a pupil is teased repeatedly in a nasty way.” (Bullying – Don’t Suffer in Silence, DFE funded Sheffield University Project).
Preventative Measures in School
As a school we will:
Action to be taken when bullying is suspected:
If bullying is suspected, the suspected victim, the suspected bully, and any witnesses will be interviewed. Whatever the outcome of the investigation all parties will be left in no doubt as to the effects of bullying and the school’s policy.
If any degree of bullying is identified, the following action will be taken:
Help, Support and Counselling will be given as appropriate to both the victims and the bullies.
We support the victims in the following ways:
· By offering them an immediate opportunity to talk about the experience with their class teacher, or another teacher if they choose.
· Informing the victims’ parents/guardians.
· By offering continued support when they feel they need it.
· By taking one or more of the disciplinary steps described below to prevent more bullying.
We also discipline, yet try to help the bullies in the following ways:
Disciplinary Steps
1. The bully/bullies will be warned officially to stop offending.
2. Informing the bullies’ parents/guardians.
3. The bully/bullies may be excluded from the school premises at lunchtimes.
4. If bullying does not stop they will be suspended for a minor fixed period (one or two days).
5. If the bullying still continues they will be recommended for suspension for a major fixed period (up to five days) or an indefinite period.
6. If the bully/bullies will not end such behaviour, they will be recommended for permanent exclusion (expulsion)
Conclusion
The object of this policy is to create a safe, happy, caring and considerate community in which children learn to value others (see Behaviour Policy). The school will regularly review its practices to ensure the effectiveness of this policy.
Appendices
APPENDIX 1
Through the curriculum schools could explore issues such as
APPENDIX 2
Information for pupils
When you are being bullied
DON’T SUFFER IN SILENCE! FEAR IS A BULLY’S GREATEST WEAPON AND YOU MUST NOT BE AFRAID OF TELLING.
Teachers will take you seriously and will deal with bullies in a way which will end the bullying and not make things worse for you.
After you have been bullied
When you are talking about bullying with an adult, be clear about
If you know someone is being bullied:
REMEMBER: Don’t suffer in silence! If we don’t know then we can’t do anything about it.
APPENDIX 3
Information for parents and families
All schools are likely to have some problem with bullying at one time or another. It is important that your child’s school takes steps to reduce and prevent bullying, as many schools have already successfully done.
Bullying behaviour includes:
Parents and families have an important part to play in helping schools deal with bullying.
As a parent:
If your child has been bullied:
Talking with teachers about bullying:
If you are not satisfied:
Families who feel that their concerns are not being addressed appropriately by the school might like to consider the following steps:
If your child is bullying other children
Many children may be involved in bullying other pupils at some time or other. Often parents are not aware that their child is involved in bullying.
Children sometimes bully others because:
To stop your child from bullying others
Thornham St. James’ C.E. (controlled) Primary School
Anti- Bullying Policy
Reviewed and updated September 2021
Bullying affects everyone, not just the bullies and the victims; it also affects those other children who watch. No one person or group, whether staff or pupil, should accept bullying behaviour. Only when all issues of bullying are addressed, will a child best be able to benefit from the opportunities available at school.
Rationale
Thornham St. James School believes that its pupils have the right to learn in a supportive, caring and safe environment without the fear of being bullied. Our school has a strong, clear behaviour policy where it is made clear that bullying is a form of unacceptable behaviour which will not be tolerated. Any bullying complaints will be dealt with firmly, fairly and promptly.
What is Bullying?
There are many definitions of bullying, but most have three things in common:
Bullying can take many forms, but the main types are:
a) PHYSICAL - hitting, kicking, spitting, taking belongings.
b) VERBAL - verbal abuse can take the form of name calling. It may be directed towards gender, ethnic origin, physical/social disability, or personality, etc
c) INDIRECT - spreading nasty stories about someone, excluding someone from social groups, having possessions taken, hidden or destroyed.
A useful quotation to be read to the pupils is:
“A pupil is being bullied, or picked on, when another pupil or groups of pupils say nasty things to him or her. It is also bullying when a pupil is hit, kicked, threatened, sent nasty notes, has unkind rumours spread about them, is called names, is not allowed to join in and things like that. These things can happen frequently and it is difficult for the pupil to defend him/herself. It is also bullying when a pupil is teased repeatedly in a nasty way.” (Bullying – Don’t Suffer in Silence, DFE funded Sheffield University Project).
Preventative Measures in School
As a school we will:
Action to be taken when bullying is suspected:
If bullying is suspected, the suspected victim, the suspected bully, and any witnesses will be interviewed. Whatever the outcome of the investigation all parties will be left in no doubt as to the effects of bullying and the school’s policy.
If any degree of bullying is identified, the following action will be taken:
Help, Support and Counselling will be given as appropriate to both the victims and the bullies.
We support the victims in the following ways:
· By offering them an immediate opportunity to talk about the experience with their class teacher, or another teacher if they choose.
· Informing the victims’ parents/guardians.
· By offering continued support when they feel they need it.
· By taking one or more of the disciplinary steps described below to prevent more bullying.
We also discipline, yet try to help the bullies in the following ways:
Disciplinary Steps
1. The bully/bullies will be warned officially to stop offending.
2. Informing the bullies’ parents/guardians.
3. The bully/bullies may be excluded from the school premises at lunchtimes.
4. If bullying does not stop they will be suspended for a minor fixed period (one or two days).
5. If the bullying still continues they will be recommended for suspension for a major fixed period (up to five days) or an indefinite period.
6. If the bully/bullies will not end such behaviour, they will be recommended for permanent exclusion (expulsion)
Conclusion
The object of this policy is to create a safe, happy, caring and considerate community in which children learn to value others (see Behaviour Policy). The school will regularly review its practices to ensure the effectiveness of this policy.
Appendices
APPENDIX 1
Through the curriculum schools could explore issues such as
APPENDIX 2
Information for pupils
When you are being bullied
DON’T SUFFER IN SILENCE! FEAR IS A BULLY’S GREATEST WEAPON AND YOU MUST NOT BE AFRAID OF TELLING.
Teachers will take you seriously and will deal with bullies in a way which will end the bullying and not make things worse for you.
After you have been bullied
When you are talking about bullying with an adult, be clear about
If you know someone is being bullied:
REMEMBER: Don’t suffer in silence! If we don’t know then we can’t do anything about it.
APPENDIX 3
Information for parents and families
All schools are likely to have some problem with bullying at one time or another. It is important that your child’s school takes steps to reduce and prevent bullying, as many schools have already successfully done.
Bullying behaviour includes:
Parents and families have an important part to play in helping schools deal with bullying.
As a parent:
If your child has been bullied:
Talking with teachers about bullying:
If you are not satisfied:
Families who feel that their concerns are not being addressed appropriately by the school might like to consider the following steps:
If your child is bullying other children
Many children may be involved in bullying other pupils at some time or other. Often parents are not aware that their child is involved in bullying.
Children sometimes bully others because:
To stop your child from bullying others